F4TFriday #50 – What I Know Now


What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 18 year old you?

Probably that a slightly grumpy, antisocial person such as me is still lucky enough to have a pretty damn amazing sex life!

What one thing might shock that younger you?

I’m not sure there’s really much. Even from an early age my tastes and desires have been pretty much as they are now. The answer would probably be similar to question 1.

Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?

I have been more fortunate than I probably deserve through my life in that most of the fantasies I had, I achieved relatively early on in my life. There’s only one I have left and I’m pretty sure that is gonna be taken care of very soon😏

What part of the younger you’s sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?

I honestly can’t say I look back with a great deal of nostalgia because for me it’s just got better and better, especially this past year. I suppose there was the initial sense of wonder those first few times but apart from that nothing really.

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F4TF #33 – The Taste Of Things To Come

What is it you particularly like (or dislike) about oral sex?

Do you prefer to give or receive?

I’ve always been a fan of oral sex. Right back to when I first had sex I always loved it. Recently though I think it’s fair to say I’ve become even more of a fan of that is possible.

So what do I like about it? Well the easy answer pretty much everything! The taste, the reaction and the level of pleasure it brings to my partner. The way I can tease(or torment). Bring her incredibly close and stop or just bring her off over and over again to the point where she literally can’t move! I’m very blessed that my girl tastes incredible and is highly responsive.

As for giving and receiving, well until recently I’ve always been almost entirely a giver. For some reason receiving has done very little for me. I have absolutely no idea why but it’s always been the case. Besides, I’ve always got so much pleasure from giving. Again though I’m very lucky that my girl not only has a passion for giving (even more than recieving) but is blessed with ability that I’ve never experienced! It’s fair to say my interest in receiving has definitely been rekindled!

Overall though I’m still very much a giver.

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F4TF #22 – For Your Viewing Pleasure

Do you watch porn? How does it fit into your sex life?

How often do you watch it? Do you watch it alone or with a partner?

Have you specific ‘types’ of porn you prefer?

Are you embarrassed to admit what you like to watch? Would you rather cut off a limb than have your browser history discovered?

Do you have any ethical qualms about watching porn?

I guess I’ve always had porn in my life. Right back to the pre internet days of my early teens when it was a copy of playboy. Then obviously it became more visible and accessible when the internet came about.

These days, I honestly can’t say it plays any great part in my life. I have in the past watched it with partners and enjoyed it. Indeed I probably in all likelihood do so again in the future.

I’ve found as I get older, I have less interest in it. Maybe it’s down to having pretty much seen it all on the screen over the years, familiarity breeds contempt as it were. Even in quiet “me time” I rarely bother with it these days. I’ve always found my mind to be a vastly superior source of filth in general anyway. There is more than enough stored in the “wank bank” to keep me happy! The fact that it’s all realistic and relatable and not some stupidly conceived scenario makes it all the better for me. Plus the fact I know the “stars” intimately is an added bonus😉

As for the kind of porn I watch, I guess it in some ways reflects my preferences in the opposite sex rather than the way I generally have sex. I tend to go for Bbw, big boobs or amateur stuff. A lot of it is far too polished and way too contrived for my taste. It may surprise people to know that I rarely watch any BDSM or kink related porn. I think that’s just down to the fact that I’m a doer not a voyeur.  Watching someone do it really does nothing for me in the way actually participating does.

As with most aspects of my life and sexual desires, I am pretty open about them to anyone who asks. If you were to look through my browser history, probably 95% would be WordPress, twitter, various kink forums and body mod forums. Most of the rest would just be boring day to day crap. Any porn in my history would probably make up a tiny fraction of it so anyone is more than welcome to have a look!

I’ll be honest, I’ve never really considered any ethical dilemma regarding porn. Like everything else, as far as I’m concerned, if it consensual then who the hell am I to judge. From what I’ve read, a lot of the stars make a very good living and to them it’s just a job.