At that point where failures hurts more
And the safety net breaks temporarily
The few outweigh the many
And nothing makes sense anymore
Love should be enough
But mistakes hurt more
Without it then
Wishing every ten minutes
Could last a lifetime
A picture painted in words and music
No photograph required
All the things
He’s no longer able to say again
Still counting sleeps in his mind
To convince himself he’s fine
The thing that will never fade
His heart’s only desire
No matter what time passes
He writes the songs
That no one else will hear
The numbness consumes
But never completely enough
Happiness turns to maudlin tears
Hopes and dreams to dust
No amount of whisky
Can drown out the feelings
Can hide the image of the face at night
And the sleep that never comes
The memory of the voice
And the laugh that mended a broken soul
Of mistakes made for the right reasons
Or what should be aeternum
Leaves no happy ending once more
But all the time screaming inside
But the only war worth fighting
Is the one that can’t be won
Until the Babylon candle burns bright
And the yellow light blinks once more
Welcome to sexy fun and playfulness at TMI Tuesday.
1. Which animal listed below represents your true sexual self?
a. Chipmunk – cute and cuddly
b. Monkey – all about being mischievousness
c. Tiger – I’ve earned my stripes
Could probably be a combination of all three depending on my mood but I’d say C
2. Your partner is in the mood for sexy fun and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!
C without a doubt. I’m very lucky in that both our libidos are very intense and closely matched so it’s never been an issue.
3. Which of these sexual descriptive labels closely matches you?
Without a doubt it’s A.
4. Would you rather have your enemy eaten by a shark or die in an earthquake getting swallowed up by earth?
I can’t really say I have any enemies to speak of and I’d imagine if I did it wouldn’t really bother me how they met their fate, just as long as they were out of my hair!
5. For the next year, would you rather be dressed like a mime every day OR look normal but not be allowed to talk?
Oh my god mimes have terrible outfits! I’m not a big talker a lot of the time anyway so I guess staying silent in my own clothes wouldn’t be too much of a hardship.
Bonus: What’s the most beautiful word in the world
Without a doubt……….Love.
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What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 18 year old you?
Probably that a slightly grumpy, antisocial person such as me is still lucky enough to have a pretty damn amazing sex life!
What one thing might shock that younger you?
I’m not sure there’s really much. Even from an early age my tastes and desires have been pretty much as they are now. The answer would probably be similar to question 1.
Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?
I have been more fortunate than I probably deserve through my life in that most of the fantasies I had, I achieved relatively early on in my life. There’s only one I have left and I’m pretty sure that is gonna be taken care of very soon😏
What part of the younger you’s sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?
I honestly can’t say I look back with a great deal of nostalgia because for me it’s just got better and better, especially this past year. I suppose there was the initial sense of wonder those first few times but apart from that nothing really.
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1. Pancakes or waffles?
I’m greedy so can’t I have both? I suppose if pushed I’d say pancakes as long as they are smothered in Nutella!
2. Steak or Lobster?
I’m actually not a massive fan of either but lobster probably just edges it.
3. Freckles or dimples?
Dimples for sure. There’s just something cute about dimples.
4. Board games or video games?
Video games every time. I’ve been a massive fan for most of my life.
5. Dress up or dress down?
Dress down. I’m very much a jeans and T-shirt kinda guy.
6. Backseat of car or kitchen counter? (Of course I’m talking about a spontaneous place to have sex)
Kitchen counter every time. Never been a fan of car back seats. Too cramped for my liking.
7. Nipple clamps or handcuffs? Tell us why you chose your particular sexual encounter enhancement?
I’ve never really liked handcuffs so definitely nipple clamps. I like the reaction when I first put them on my girl, then pulling on the chain to tighten them, seeing just how much she can take…….
Bonus: How was your weekend? Would you like to repeat it or never see that weekend again?
I was working so I think it falls firmly into the never see it again catagory!
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What is it you particularly like (or dislike) about oral sex?
Do you prefer to give or receive?
I’ve always been a fan of oral sex. Right back to when I first had sex I always loved it. Recently though I think it’s fair to say I’ve become even more of a fan of that is possible.
So what do I like about it? Well the easy answer pretty much everything! The taste, the reaction and the level of pleasure it brings to my partner. The way I can tease(or torment). Bring her incredibly close and stop or just bring her off over and over again to the point where she literally can’t move! I’m very blessed that my girl tastes incredible and is highly responsive.
As for giving and receiving, well until recently I’ve always been almost entirely a giver. For some reason receiving has done very little for me. I have absolutely no idea why but it’s always been the case. Besides, I’ve always got so much pleasure from giving. Again though I’m very lucky that my girl not only has a passion for giving (even more than recieving) but is blessed with ability that I’ve never experienced! It’s fair to say my interest in receiving has definitely been rekindled!
Overall though I’m still very much a giver.
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She heard the unmistakable growl from his throat as his body stiffened, his almost insatiable appetite temporarily satisfied several times that evening. She smiled inwardly to herself, rather pleased at being able to keep up with his libido. She had worried when they first got together but was happy to find they were a good match.
Her body trembled slightly and she let out a little giggle, what she referred to as a girly giggle. This was quite new to her. She wasn’t known for being girly but there was something about Him that made her feel small and girly.
She looked up at him, peering over her glasses, his blue eyes highlighted against the dark shadow of his beard. His eyes were still wild with desire and he had the slightly smug grin on his lips that she really liked. It meant he was really happy and nothing made her happier then seeing him smile. “Feeling better” she giggled again.
He beamed back at her “My good girl” he growled in a hoarse voice, “Time for your reward I think”.
Without ceremony he yanked her legs apart once more and buried his face between them. He inhaled deeply, intoxicated by her scent. Her body reacted just as he knew it would. Instantly her nails dug into his scalp, as if trying to force his tongue deeper inside her. She seemed to read his mind. This wasn’t to be a long drawn out session, he wanted to cum quick and hard.
He slipped his finger inside her and she reacted instantly, shuddering and making her own imperceptible sounds. He smiled inwardly to himself as her body had another powerful orgasm. Knowing how sensitive she was, he continued using his tounge, knowing fine well the delicious torture she found it! Right to the point he knew she could take no more…..
He stood up and stood over her, her juices covering his beard. She giggled again, “Your quickies are damn intense! I think I’m gonna keep you”.
It’s sexy time! Today is the day, the day you decide to play TMI Tuesday.
1. Have you ever had sex in the changing room of a store?
No never. I really like the idea and have written about it here. I think it’s one that I’ll probably never do.
2. Ever blindfolded your partner for sex or have you been blindfolded during sex?
Yes I have on many occasions blindfolded my partner.
3. Who out there likes to be tied up for sex?
I love playing with rope. Not being tied up but I get a lot of pleasure from rigging.
4. Shower sex…yea or nay? Why?
Something I haven’t done for many years simply because my shower is too small. It’s good fun though and would definitely do again if the opportunity arose.
5. Ever done a striptease for a lover?
No. I don’t think I could keep a straight face trying to do it! My girl on the other hand does it so well…….
Bonus: What are you thinking?
I’m thinking that I really can’t be bothered with working today
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After this week’s TMI Tuesday you may say, “Get out of my head!”
The Psychology of Sex
1. For you, can sex be separated from love?
Undoubtedly but in my experience the best sex usually comes about when there is love or at least a pretty deep connection.
2. Can sex be separated from caring?
Again it’s a yes and the answer to question one could apply equally here too.
3. Men: Does sex seem to be something that you can never get enough of and are constantly seeking or thinking about?
I’m blessed (or cursed depending on the situation) with a very high sex drive and it seems to have increased ten fold since I’ve been with my girl! It’s definitely something I can never get enough of. As for constantly thinking about it, I can’t say it rules my life in that respect.
4. Women: Is sex secondary to intimacy, physical closeness, and commitment?
I can’t speak for my girl but I know that sex is as hugely important to her as it is to me.
5. Who is more discriminating in choosing sexual partners–you or your significant other?
We are both pretty discriminating when it comes to that.
Bonus: Who is more likely to take on additional sexual partners, you or your significant other?
Neither of us. I have been monogamous most of my life and my girl is the same.
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