TMI Tuesday: April 11, 2017

This or That?

1 โ€“ Lights on or off?

Definitely lights on. I like to admire the view and take in every little detail of what’s going on.

2 โ€“ Slow teasing or getting right to business?

I’m going to take the politicians answer here and say both. Sometimes getting right down to business is exactly what is needed, those “have to have you right now” moments. On the other hand there’s times when you just want to tease the living hell out of her and keep her just on the edge until she begs๐Ÿ˜ˆ

3 โ€“ Giver or receiver?

Rather like Christmas I’m a firm believer in it’s far better to give than to receive.

4 โ€“ Background noise or no?

Definitely background noise. I’ve always got music on so it’s just a case of choosing the appropriate playlist depending on which particular “activity” we are engaged in.

5 โ€“ Top or bottom?

I read this two ways so I’ll give both answers. If we’re referring to BDSM then top always. Bottoming just doesn’t do it for me. For sex then it’s a bit more open. I prefer to be on top(or behind) but sometimes it’s fun to be underneath.

6 โ€“ Private or public?

Mainly private. I’m not a huge exhibitionist and I like comfort. On the other hand it’s great fun to indulge in a bit of Al Fresco fun once in a while. I did have a particularly memorable outdoor session last winter in a snow storm! The few fantasies I have left to tick off my “fuckit list” are outdoor ones.

Bonus โ€“ Describe your best or worst sexual encounter. Double bonus if you describe both. 

I never really rate the encounters I’ve been fortunate enough to have so it’s a tricky question. I suppose the best would probably have been last year. I’m far too much of a gentleman to elaborate but there was an intensity and fire(among other things) in the lady in question that I saw right away that really made it memorable. 

As for bad, I can’t really say I’ve had any really bad ones. I suppose the worst ones would have been one scene where I dropped my knife and took a chunk out of my foot๐Ÿ™ˆ. Or possibly many years ago when the dog of the  girl I was with at the time decided to get frisky with my ankle when we were in the middle of things๐Ÿ˜ณ

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TMI Tuesday โ€“ April 4, 2017

Tell It Like It Is.

Elaborate on each in greater than 20 words but no more than 100 words.

1. Sex is _____ .

The most amazing thing in the world. It’s the time when I feel most comfortable and at home. Probably the only thing in my life I’ll never get tired of ever.

2. Love is _____ .

The singularly most wonderful and painful emotion all rolled into one big messed up package. The ability to make the soul soar or plunge into the pit of hell.

3. Money is _____ .

A necessary evil. Can’t do much without it and there never seems to be enough to go round no matter what. Something I’ve never coveted but ultimately can’t do without.

4. Power is _____ .

Corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely! A dangerous things when used irresponsibly and a wonderful thing when used for the betterment of those involved.

5. Life is _____ .

Exactly what you make it. That’s what I’ve always believed anyway. It’s bloody hard work a lot of the time but I try my best never to let it get me down for too long.

Bonus: Food is _____ .

A means to an end. I’m not a huge foodie to be honest. It’s just something I have to do. I exist on a diet of Italian and junk food primarily.