This or That?
1 – Lights on or off?
Definitely lights on. I like to admire the view and take in every little detail of what’s going on.
2 – Slow teasing or getting right to business?
I’m going to take the politicians answer here and say both. Sometimes getting right down to business is exactly what is needed, those “have to have you right now” moments. On the other hand there’s times when you just want to tease the living hell out of her and keep her just on the edge until she begs😈
3 – Giver or receiver?
Rather like Christmas I’m a firm believer in it’s far better to give than to receive.
4 – Background noise or no?
Definitely background noise. I’ve always got music on so it’s just a case of choosing the appropriate playlist depending on which particular “activity” we are engaged in.
5 – Top or bottom?
I read this two ways so I’ll give both answers. If we’re referring to BDSM then top always. Bottoming just doesn’t do it for me. For sex then it’s a bit more open. I prefer to be on top(or behind) but sometimes it’s fun to be underneath.
6 – Private or public?
Mainly private. I’m not a huge exhibitionist and I like comfort. On the other hand it’s great fun to indulge in a bit of Al Fresco fun once in a while. I did have a particularly memorable outdoor session last winter in a snow storm! The few fantasies I have left to tick off my “fuckit list” are outdoor ones.
Bonus – Describe your best or worst sexual encounter. Double bonus if you describe both.
I never really rate the encounters I’ve been fortunate enough to have so it’s a tricky question. I suppose the best would probably have been last year. I’m far too much of a gentleman to elaborate but there was an intensity and fire(among other things) in the lady in question that I saw right away that really made it memorable.
As for bad, I can’t really say I’ve had any really bad ones. I suppose the worst ones would have been one scene where I dropped my knife and took a chunk out of my foot🙈. Or possibly many years ago when the dog of the girl I was with at the time decided to get frisky with my ankle when we were in the middle of things😳
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