As is often the way with Kink of the week, the topic posed is often something I’d not really thought about on the surface but if I look deeper then there usually is something there.
So backs. What can I say about my own back? Well like the rest of me it’s on the hairy side and it’s sporting rather a lot of tattoos.
Now I’m not one for receiving any sort of pain but I must admit there is something tremendously satisfying about having ones back clawed. You know that moment in the throws when her nails sink into your skin and rake your back. It’s great feedback that you’re doing a good job and for me it’s a huge turn on.
So what about my partners back. Well visually it’s appealing. Taking in the whole of her back, tracing my fingers all the way from shoulders right down to the tantalising curves of her hips…
Something I enjoy very much is administering a nice long hot oil massage. If you’ve never tried it then I highly recommend it. It’s guaranteed when done properly to relax her so much.
Now something which up until fairly recently would have been a hard limit for me is corset piercing. I’ve become quite fascinated of late by the whole beauty and intricacy of it. It’s something I never thought would appeal to me and something I won’t be attempting for quite some time yet but it just goes to show how things can change.
I think more than anything for me, I see the back as a blank canvas. She is restrained, hands above her head and ready for a flogging, the mind wanders as to what kind of intricate patterns you will leave behind on her skin. Every flogger, every scene a different utterly unique collage left behind for you to admire. A tremendous thrill for me and one which I’ll never tire of.
And last but not least, a most excellent location for knife play. The cold steel running from the shoulder blades down and tracing to the hips. The beauty of the long white lines dotted and interspersed with red along pale skin is just breathtaking in my book.
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