TMI Tuesday: July 18, 2017

Sex is no big deal but TMI Tuesday is.

1. For you, what is sexy time?

I have to say that lately I’ve discovered that sexy is not so much about what you’re doing but who you’re doing it with. So for me, when I’m with my girl, sexy time could be something as innocent as just having dinner together right through to something more hardcore.

2. If your best friend asked, “Do you think I’m sexy?” What would you say?

I think everyone is sexy in their own way so I’d say yes.

3. If your Mom or Dad asked, “How’s your love life?” Would you answer? What would you tell them?

That’s actually something my mum asked me many times when she was still alive. I honestly never had any problems being completely open with her about it.

4. A young 8-year-old neighbor asks you, “What is the birds and the bees?” How do you reply?

“Ask your mum”!

5. What would you do if your lover’s turn onis your turn off?

That’s something I’ve never experienced so not entirely sure exactly how I’d react. I’ve got very few absolute “hard limits” so I suppose unless it really veered into that territory I would probably be open to negotiation.

Bonus: What does it mean to be a man?

Oh wow, that’s a deep question and one I’m not sure there’s a definitive answer to. It’s certainly not something I’ve ever given any great thought to, it’s just something I take for granted.

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TMI Tuesday: July 11, 2017

Another day, another week, another fabulous TMI Tuesday! 😀

1. You have 3 days to live:

a. What will you stop doing?

Absolutely nothing


b. What will you do before your time runs out?

Say my goodbyes to everyone and spend the remaining time with my girl.

2. “True wealth is the ability to fully experience life.” – Henry David Thoreau

a. Are you truly experiencing life?

Yeah I would definitely say I am.


b. Are you truly experiencing a full sex life?

Oh without a doubt. I can honestly say, hand on heart it’s never been so good!

3. During sex, what is something that usually distracts you?

Nothing. The world could be burning in the background and I wouldn’t break my concentration.

4. Because you are busy, busy, busy you now have been ordered to have scheduled down time of two hours.

a. What time of day do you take your down time?

Probably in the late morning.


b. What do you do in your down time?

Sleep😴

5. Thinking about your sex life:

a. What are the positives?

At this moment in time……..absolutely everything! Can’t think how it could be better.


b. What are the negatives?

None at all.

Bonus: In question 5, how can you change the negatives to positives–eliminate them?

There are no negatives😊

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TMI Tuesday: June 27, 2017

Contemplation. Life. These are the questions, TMI Tuesday questions.

Life and Living

1. If happiness was a currency, what kind of work would make you rich?

Definitely a rock star. My lack of talent would probably mean I was financially poor but since we’re talking about happiness them I’d be very rich indeed.

2. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?

With regards work life, definitely settling.

With regards my personal life, doing entirely what I believe in!

3. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?

If I knew that I only had 40 years to play with, I’d pretty much do what I’ve done so far in life. The only thing I’d do differently is do much much more of it!

4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

That’s always been a problem of mine. I like to try and do the right thing and I like to do things right. Unfortunately it often means I’ve done the wrong thing for the right reasons.

5. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?

No matter what happens, be true to yourself.

Bonus: When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

I like to think I’m gonna end up doing more than I’ve said. Time will tell I suppose.

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I told you so!

Not so much a blog post, more by way of losing a bet!

In a recent “discussion” with someone very special to me, I may have overstated just how sure I was that I was right on a particular subject. Needless to say, despite my usually unshakable self belief, I was proven wrong in the most spectacular fashion!

So as part of the bet I’m  happy to say….

You were right🖤

TMI Tuesday: May 30, 2017

Important Questions

1. If you are on facebook, when was the last time you had to “unfriend” someone and why?

I haven’t had facebook for about five years so I can’t even remember.

2. What are you addicted to?

I have two, one of which, nicotine(vape) I will give up at some point. The other I have no desire to ever quit.

3. What are the first 3 things you do every morning?

Let of a string of expletives in the direction of the alarm clock. Shower and then eat.

4. How lucky are you and why?

If it wasn’t for bad luck I’d have none 😂 I guess I’m lucky I’m still alive, healthy and(relatively) sane.

5. What is one thing you’re embarrassed to admit you want to try?

I honestly cannot think of anything. When, like me, you habitually put your foot in it so to speak then embarrassment tends not to be an issue😂

Bonus: Are you proud of what you are doing?

I’m not sure if pride is the right word really. Let’s just say I’m more than comfortable with everything I am doing.
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Right here, right now

The night, hot, sultry, sticky. My mass of body hair really not helping. Nor does your unnecessary babydoll you insist on wearing, although your shyness is utterly cute and endearing and I really wouldn’t change it.

I’m only aware of your breathing, light, I can tell you’re just dozing. At least you are doing better than me. I can feel the heat radiate from you added to the smell of your perfume. It’s a heady, intoxicating and addictive mix. I feel myself harden, yeah sleep is even less likely to happen now!

Briefly you open your eyes, just for a fraction of a second, just enough time for me to see that fire I love. Dunno if it’s conscious but you always do it!

I roll on top of you. Not subtle, not gentle. How many times have we fucked already tonight? Meh, I’ve really no idea. All I know is right now I need to have you! It’s primal, raw and urgent. Slow love making, long well planned scenes are for later. Now is the time for unabated lust.

You’re awake fully now as I slip easily inside you. Eyes wide with lust, nails already sinking into my skin the way I like it. Exactly on the same wavelength as we always are. Your thighs wrapped firmly around my back. 

Teeth, nails, clawing, biting, just both exactly what we need. Both your hands pinned firmly to the pillows as we get closer. Yes, we are close. “Cum for me babygirl” I almost whisper it. Both our bodies tense before we simply collapse and hold each other tightly. No more words pass between us. The look in your eyes says everything as we finally start to doze.

All Mine

He had almost fooled himself for a while. He had planned it over and over in his head so many times. He wasn’t a man to leave anything to chance. It was where he was most comfortable, most at home. Where words meant nothing and actions did the talking. He thought he was going to be in control of himself fully. But no plan is foolproof.

The instant they stepped into the room together the floodgates opened. All pretence, all careful planning gone in an instant. He grabbed her so hard and slammed her against the wall that she was momentarily winded. He kissed her with an ferocity that surprised even him. Her body seemed to melt in his arms. 

He kissed and nibbled her neck as he unbuttoned her shirt. “Aww fuck, you’re not playing fair” she gasped breathlessly as he scraped his teeth very slowly and deliberately down her collarbone. The ghost of a smile played on his lips as his hand fumbled with the waistband of her trousers.

He pulled down her loose fitting trousers and was pleasantly surprised to see she was commando. He kissed her hard again as his hand slipped between her thighs feeling the slick wetness of her shaven cunt. Burying his finger deep inside her and hearing the soft moans escape from her lips. “Mine” he growled in her ear as he withdrew his fingers and put them in his mouth, savouring the taste of her before grabbing her by the arm and throwing her onto the bed.

In one swift movement he pulled of her trousers and buried his face between her legs. Her body stiffened and fell limp again as his tongue worked hungrily into her, deeper, faster, exploring every part of her. He felt her body shudder once more and he knew he had to have her now.

Pulling down his jeans, in one swift movement he was inside her. Pinning both her hands above her head as she wrapped her legs around his back. He wanted her so much right now, hard, fast and raw. Releasing her wrists she clawed at his neck as he sank his teeth in to her skin.

He felt her tighten around him, gripping his cock tightly,her body shaking once more as he started to cum. All at once he collapsed on top of her. He became suddenly aware of the smell of her perfume as he softly kissed her neck.

“You missed me then?” she muttered and started laughing. All in all, a good start to the evening.

TMI Tuesday: May 9, 2017

Life, datingyour body and more

1. What period of your life was the happiest? Why?

I’m reasonably happy, or at least contented  most of the time so I really find it tricky to name any one period.

2. True or False. If you want a successful date, take charge–take the lead. Why?

True. Mainly just because I like to take the lead in everything I do in life. Not that is any guarantee of success 😂

3. True or false: Males are aggressive and assertive, and women are nurturing. Explain your answer.

Probably false. Speaking from my own point of view, I’m certainly assertive but not aggressive (well in most aspects of life). I’d also consider myself quite nurturing when it comes to relationships. I can also honestly say that a great many of my female friends are not nurturing in the traditional sense.

4. Is your body keeping you from a good sex life? How so?

Nah. My body is what it is and I’m stuck with it! It does it’s job pretty well most of the time.

5. Smiles. Do you have a sexy smile that is different from your regular smile. Post a pic of your sexy smile or describe it for us?

I’m not a big smiler and I certainly don’t think I’ve a sexy smile! 

Bonus: May is Masturbation Month. Which of these is your best benefit from masturbating:
a. helps you to relax and/or fall asleep
b. boosts self-esteem
c. combats erectile dysfunction
d. helps you know what feels good so you can tell your sex partner

I guess answer A. To be honest it’s not something I’ve ever given any thought!

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Power

Her whole body shuddered again as another orgasm raced through her. How many times had it been now? She’d tried to count in her head but she’d long since lost track.

Then it stopped again, she relaxed, trying to prepare herself for the enslaught on her senses that she knew would inevitably come again. She moved her head very slightly, in fact that was the only part of her body she was able to move. He’d tied her tight, face down on her bed. A small remote control vibrator buried deep in her swollen cunt.

She was conscious of him standing over her. She had a fair idea of what was about to happen and once again she felt her body shudder as the cold steel blade touched the top of her spine. She buried her face in the pillow as he scrapped the blade slowly and methodically over her shoulder blades. She bit down on the pillow to stifle her moans as he ran the point down the entire length of her spine. And then it was gone.

Catching her breath she imagined him standing behind her, his cold blue eyes staring at her, watching for her reactions, seeing if she’d react. She knew fine well if she did he’d prolong things even further. He was teasing her with his inaction and leaving her to wonder what would happen next. Lost in her own intimate world with his hand firmly guiding her.