TMI Tuesday – August 29, 2017

It’s sexy time! Today is the day, the day you decide to play TMI Tuesday.

1. Have you ever had sex in the changing room of a store?

No never. I really like the idea and have written about it here. I think it’s one that I’ll probably never do.

2. Ever blindfolded your partner for sex or have you been blindfolded during sex?

Yes I have on many occasions blindfolded my partner. 

3. Who out there likes to be tied up for sex?

I love playing with rope. Not being tied up but I get a lot of pleasure from rigging.

4. Shower sex…yea or nay? Why?

Something I haven’t done for many years simply because my shower is too small. It’s good fun though and would definitely do again if the opportunity arose.

5. Ever done a striptease for a lover?

No. I don’t think I could keep a straight face trying to do it! My girl on the other hand does it so well…….

Bonus: What are you thinking?

I’m thinking that I really can’t be bothered with working today

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TMI Tuesday: August 22, 2017

After this week’s TMI Tuesday you may say, “Get out of my head!”

The Psychology of Sex

1. For you, can sex be separated from love?

Undoubtedly but in my experience the best sex usually comes about when there is love or at least a pretty deep connection.


2. Can sex be separated from caring?

Again it’s a yes and the answer to question one could apply equally here too.

3. Men: Does sex seem to be something that you can never get enough of and are constantly seeking or thinking about?

I’m blessed (or cursed depending on the situation) with a very high sex drive and it seems to have increased ten fold since I’ve been with my girl! It’s definitely something I can never get enough of. As for constantly thinking about it, I can’t say it rules my life in that respect.


4. Women: Is sex secondary to intimacy, physical closeness, and commitment?

I can’t speak for my girl but I know that sex is as hugely important to her as it is to me. 


5. Who is more discriminating in choosing sexual partners–you or your significant other?

We are both pretty discriminating when it comes to that.

Bonus: Who is more likely to take on additional sexual partners, you or your significant other?

Neither of us. I have been monogamous most of my life and my girl is the same.

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TMI Tuesday: July 18, 2017

Sex is no big deal but TMI Tuesday is.

1. For you, what is sexy time?

I have to say that lately I’ve discovered that sexy is not so much about what you’re doing but who you’re doing it with. So for me, when I’m with my girl, sexy time could be something as innocent as just having dinner together right through to something more hardcore.

2. If your best friend asked, “Do you think I’m sexy?” What would you say?

I think everyone is sexy in their own way so I’d say yes.

3. If your Mom or Dad asked, “How’s your love life?” Would you answer? What would you tell them?

That’s actually something my mum asked me many times when she was still alive. I honestly never had any problems being completely open with her about it.

4. A young 8-year-old neighbor asks you, “What is the birds and the bees?” How do you reply?

“Ask your mum”!

5. What would you do if your lover’s turn onis your turn off?

That’s something I’ve never experienced so not entirely sure exactly how I’d react. I’ve got very few absolute “hard limits” so I suppose unless it really veered into that territory I would probably be open to negotiation.

Bonus: What does it mean to be a man?

Oh wow, that’s a deep question and one I’m not sure there’s a definitive answer to. It’s certainly not something I’ve ever given any great thought to, it’s just something I take for granted.

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TMI Tuesday: July 11, 2017

Another day, another week, another fabulous TMI Tuesday! 😀

1. You have 3 days to live:

a. What will you stop doing?

Absolutely nothing


b. What will you do before your time runs out?

Say my goodbyes to everyone and spend the remaining time with my girl.

2. “True wealth is the ability to fully experience life.” – Henry David Thoreau

a. Are you truly experiencing life?

Yeah I would definitely say I am.


b. Are you truly experiencing a full sex life?

Oh without a doubt. I can honestly say, hand on heart it’s never been so good!

3. During sex, what is something that usually distracts you?

Nothing. The world could be burning in the background and I wouldn’t break my concentration.

4. Because you are busy, busy, busy you now have been ordered to have scheduled down time of two hours.

a. What time of day do you take your down time?

Probably in the late morning.


b. What do you do in your down time?

Sleep😴

5. Thinking about your sex life:

a. What are the positives?

At this moment in time……..absolutely everything! Can’t think how it could be better.


b. What are the negatives?

None at all.

Bonus: In question 5, how can you change the negatives to positives–eliminate them?

There are no negatives😊

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TMI Tuesday: June 27, 2017

Contemplation. Life. These are the questions, TMI Tuesday questions.

Life and Living

1. If happiness was a currency, what kind of work would make you rich?

Definitely a rock star. My lack of talent would probably mean I was financially poor but since we’re talking about happiness them I’d be very rich indeed.

2. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?

With regards work life, definitely settling.

With regards my personal life, doing entirely what I believe in!

3. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?

If I knew that I only had 40 years to play with, I’d pretty much do what I’ve done so far in life. The only thing I’d do differently is do much much more of it!

4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?

That’s always been a problem of mine. I like to try and do the right thing and I like to do things right. Unfortunately it often means I’ve done the wrong thing for the right reasons.

5. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?

No matter what happens, be true to yourself.

Bonus: When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?

I like to think I’m gonna end up doing more than I’ve said. Time will tell I suppose.

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I told you so!

Not so much a blog post, more by way of losing a bet!

In a recent “discussion” with someone very special to me, I may have overstated just how sure I was that I was right on a particular subject. Needless to say, despite my usually unshakable self belief, I was proven wrong in the most spectacular fashion!

So as part of the bet I’m  happy to say….

You were right🖤

TMI Tuesday: May 30, 2017

Important Questions

1. If you are on facebook, when was the last time you had to “unfriend” someone and why?

I haven’t had facebook for about five years so I can’t even remember.

2. What are you addicted to?

I have two, one of which, nicotine(vape) I will give up at some point. The other I have no desire to ever quit.

3. What are the first 3 things you do every morning?

Let of a string of expletives in the direction of the alarm clock. Shower and then eat.

4. How lucky are you and why?

If it wasn’t for bad luck I’d have none 😂 I guess I’m lucky I’m still alive, healthy and(relatively) sane.

5. What is one thing you’re embarrassed to admit you want to try?

I honestly cannot think of anything. When, like me, you habitually put your foot in it so to speak then embarrassment tends not to be an issue😂

Bonus: Are you proud of what you are doing?

I’m not sure if pride is the right word really. Let’s just say I’m more than comfortable with everything I am doing.
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Right here, right now

The night, hot, sultry, sticky. My mass of body hair really not helping. Nor does your unnecessary babydoll you insist on wearing, although your shyness is utterly cute and endearing and I really wouldn’t change it.

I’m only aware of your breathing, light, I can tell you’re just dozing. At least you are doing better than me. I can feel the heat radiate from you added to the smell of your perfume. It’s a heady, intoxicating and addictive mix. I feel myself harden, yeah sleep is even less likely to happen now!

Briefly you open your eyes, just for a fraction of a second, just enough time for me to see that fire I love. Dunno if it’s conscious but you always do it!

I roll on top of you. Not subtle, not gentle. How many times have we fucked already tonight? Meh, I’ve really no idea. All I know is right now I need to have you! It’s primal, raw and urgent. Slow love making, long well planned scenes are for later. Now is the time for unabated lust.

You’re awake fully now as I slip easily inside you. Eyes wide with lust, nails already sinking into my skin the way I like it. Exactly on the same wavelength as we always are. Your thighs wrapped firmly around my back. 

Teeth, nails, clawing, biting, just both exactly what we need. Both your hands pinned firmly to the pillows as we get closer. Yes, we are close. “Cum for me babygirl” I almost whisper it. Both our bodies tense before we simply collapse and hold each other tightly. No more words pass between us. The look in your eyes says everything as we finally start to doze.

All Mine

He had almost fooled himself for a while. He had planned it over and over in his head so many times. He wasn’t a man to leave anything to chance. It was where he was most comfortable, most at home. Where words meant nothing and actions did the talking. He thought he was going to be in control of himself fully. But no plan is foolproof.

The instant they stepped into the room together the floodgates opened. All pretence, all careful planning gone in an instant. He grabbed her so hard and slammed her against the wall that she was momentarily winded. He kissed her with an ferocity that surprised even him. Her body seemed to melt in his arms. 

He kissed and nibbled her neck as he unbuttoned her shirt. “Aww fuck, you’re not playing fair” she gasped breathlessly as he scraped his teeth very slowly and deliberately down her collarbone. The ghost of a smile played on his lips as his hand fumbled with the waistband of her trousers.

He pulled down her loose fitting trousers and was pleasantly surprised to see she was commando. He kissed her hard again as his hand slipped between her thighs feeling the slick wetness of her shaven cunt. Burying his finger deep inside her and hearing the soft moans escape from her lips. “Mine” he growled in her ear as he withdrew his fingers and put them in his mouth, savouring the taste of her before grabbing her by the arm and throwing her onto the bed.

In one swift movement he pulled of her trousers and buried his face between her legs. Her body stiffened and fell limp again as his tongue worked hungrily into her, deeper, faster, exploring every part of her. He felt her body shudder once more and he knew he had to have her now.

Pulling down his jeans, in one swift movement he was inside her. Pinning both her hands above her head as she wrapped her legs around his back. He wanted her so much right now, hard, fast and raw. Releasing her wrists she clawed at his neck as he sank his teeth in to her skin.

He felt her tighten around him, gripping his cock tightly,her body shaking once more as he started to cum. All at once he collapsed on top of her. He became suddenly aware of the smell of her perfume as he softly kissed her neck.

“You missed me then?” she muttered and started laughing. All in all, a good start to the evening.